Losing Weight vs. Gaining Happiness

An active mind cannot exist in an inactive body―General George S. Patton

running I wanted to share with you a very well written blog (and a great website as well!). In this blog by Daniel Chidiac he really gets at the heart of the real health and happiness: Your body should be loved for the highly technical machine it is. It deserves respect for housing the only thing that is ever permanent: your soul.

Thanks Daniel for an excellent blog! Such a good reminder that we should be searching to feel good, not weigh less.

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The Poor Fisherman’s Story: A reminder about the important things in life!

This story is a classic but I was reminded of it by my sis-in-law over the holidays and thought it was a beautiful reminder:

One day a rich Westerner who had made sqillions from speculating on the stock market was strolling along the beach and saw the fisherman pulling in his boat with his meager catch.

The rich Westerner stopped and remarked “not much of a catch today”. The fisherman replied “yes not much” but explained that his small catch was enough for him and his family.

The rich Westerner asked, “But what do you do with the rest of your time?”

“I sleep late, play with my children and have an afternoon’s rest under a coconut tree. In the evenings, I go to the local pub to see my friends, play some music, and sing a few songs….. I have a full and happy life.” replied the fisherman.

The rich Westerner ventured, “I have an MBA from Harvard and I can help you…… You should start by fishing longer every day. You can then sell the extra fish you catch. With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger boat.

With the extra money the larger boat will bring, you can buy a second one and a third one and so on until you have a large fleet. Instead of selling your fish to a middleman, you can negotiate directly with the processing plants and maybe even open your own plant. You can then leave this little village and move to a city from where you can direct your huge enterprise.”

“And after that?” asked the fisherman.

“After that? That’s when it gets really interesting,” answered the rich Westerner, laughing, “When your business gets really big, you can start selling stock in your company and make millions!”

“Millions? Really? And after that?” pressed the fisherman.

“After that you’ll be able to retire, move out to a small village by the sea, sleep in late every day, spend time with your family, go fishing, take afternoon naps under a coconut tree, and spend relaxing evenings with friends…”

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HAPPY 2012! It’s resolution time!

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Happy 2012! Last year was the best one of my life so far, and beginning a new one means even more good things to come. Garret and I celebrated the new year surrounded by new friends and we couldn’t be more thankful! Now that 2012 is here we have even more reason to celebrate.

That new years eve happens after Christmas is perfectly timed. After a month of decadence and joy we have the opportunity to make plans and discover what we want to happen on our new blank slate. What do we want to be? Enjoy? Do? That is why I love new years resolutions so much!

Last year I vowed to get to the bottom of my health challenges. After spending 2010 in constant abdominal pain, I wanted some answers. In 2011 I visited 3 doctors, one ayurvedic specialist, one clairvoyant, and finally- a digestive specialist in Seattle. Taking my health matters into my own hands has been an incredible journey. I now know that good health is up to me and to take good care of myself. I also achieved my goal. I found out that I am allergic to wheat, dairy, and eggs. After three months free of my poisons I can truly say that I have never felt so good in my life!

Now that I have my health and vitality back, I feel like the world is my oyster. I can do anything! So its time for me to dig into my passions and spend the year doing things I love with people I love. Sounds great right? Here are my new years resolutions to achieve just that!

Goals/Aspirations: I want to spend more time developing my hobbies and passions. In particular, I want to:

  1. Teach Yoga: I will teach a regular yoga class! I’m power yoga certified and now is the time to get my teaching practice going!
  2. Design: I will design 5 articles of clothing and get at least one of them made!
  3. Volunteer: I will be spending the year helping two causes I love- Young Life and Make-a-Wish.
Personal Growth: I want to make positive changes that will influence every aspect of my life:
  1. Re-read the entire bible: This will encourage me to have daily meditations each morning before rushing off!
  2. Renew my yoga practice: My personal practice deeply suffered in the beginning of 2011 in the ruckus of getting married, moving, etc. In 2012 I will get back to my passions and take weekly if not- multi-weekly classes. Having a consistent practice will deeply impact my mind, body, and spirit to enable plenty of other goals to emerge!
  3. Spend Consciously: I didn’t give much thought to my spending habits in 2011. But now that there are so many things I want to do in life I realize that I need to start making positive decisions to make those happen. Part of that, is needing money. I now have a meticulously planned budget on mint.com that I will stick to this year. Doing this means I get to do more of the things I love in life.

Dreams:

  1. International Vacation: Garret and I are going on a 2-week international vacation in 2012. Details to come!
  2. Use our land: Garret and I love our property and want to do amazing things with it. Plans include installing a greenhouse and others to make our lives more self-sufficient.

Hold me accountable everyone! Happy New Year!

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Thanks for an Amazing Year!!

As the year is winding down, I can’t help but think how much I have to be thankful for! I spent last weekend celebrating Christmas with my family and had a complete blast! We also get to spend real Christmas with the in-laws this year so we are very lucky to get to celebrate with both sets!!  Together there are 8 of us (four kids, two parents, and two significant others!) and when we are all together, my little brother gets so much attention that he can’t think of someone to miss! He has to resort to missing our exchange student from years ago when he can’t miss any of the sisters or “brothers”!

Lately the blessings just seem to be piling up, which seems to be perfectly timed for Christmas. Thank you so much to all my family, friends (both old and new), awesome neighbors, and community that have made this year completely amazing. It was all you! I just wish I had more pictures to prove it! Here are the ones I do have!

Our Combined Bachelor/Bachelorette Party the night before we were married!

Our Wedding Day

Celebrating with the whole family! (Luke is there, Garret is just blocking him!)

Catching concerts at the Britt!

Celebrating with friends!

Loving living in California, our favorite place on earth!

I am so stoked for 2012. Its going to be the best year yet! Thanks everyone! Merry Christmas and HAPPY NEW YEAR!

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Pump up the Positive Thinking!

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Have you ever come out of a movie dying to tell your friend how horrible it was? I definitely have. It seems like its really easy to find the fault in everything because if you look for it, you will find it! But similarly, you can also find the good in everything- and it can change your life!

Finding Fault in Everything is Really a Bummer!

I used to think that as negative thoughts came up, I would just whisk them away. Every time lent came around, I would say “I’m giving up negative thinking!!” (Which led to my husband’s repeated gentle prodding “I thought you were giving that up?” every time I started giving my critique). Last week I tried out a new yoga teacher who ended up not being the right personality fit for me (I might be a little picky when it comes to yoga teachers, but you kinda have to be since they are the ones responsible for guiding you physically, mentally, and spiritually, and you want to feel in good hands). After class I was completely ready to critique him to my girlfriend even though she completely loved the class! Why do I need to put in my negative 2 cents? It’s not helping a thing! There is absolutely no reason why I should put negative thoughts into a friend’s head when she only has positive ones!

Life is AWESOME!

So after I thought about this, I came up with a new philosophy for ridding myself of negative thinking. Instead of trying not to make negative comments (which can be ridiculously hard)- I’m just going to make TONS of positive comments! I’ve officially challenged myself to find the good in EVERYTHING. So this week I tried out another new teacher. Normally I might have said he wasn’t a good fit for me, but this time I thought about it a little more. Didn’t I like how happy he was? Didn’t he challenge me? Didn’t I feel like I really nailed my wheel today? Ok so maybe I had a good time. Actually, maybe I had a blast! Why can’t I try tons of teachers? I will learn something new from each of them. The fact that I totally love Peggy Orr’s yoga classes in Mill Valley doesn’t exclude me from being able to enjoy other classes in Marin!

Afterwards, I thanked my teacher, and told my friend about how I loved how he got me into my wheel! Instead of trying NOT to say how he wasn’t a good fit, I chose to say the good things. This thought process alone has helped me drastically alter my week. The more positive things you do, the more positive you are! So I’m sticking to it! It’s Christmas after all and we all have PLENTY to be happy about!

MERRY CHRISTMAS! 

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Keep the Christmas Cheer!

Pinned ImageChristmas is here!!! I wanted to share with you an amazing blog by an old friend who hit it right on the nose. It’s important to keep Christ the center of Christmas, but it’s also important to not get caught up in the frenzy of holiday shopping and forget why you are doing it in the first place: To give! Erin talks about thinking about gift giving as a sacrifice- of thinking about it in the positive light of trying to do something nice for someone else. I love remembering the reason why I’m shopping- because I care about the people I am getting gifts for- and I want to give them something special. I can’t wait to celebrate Christmas with my family and give them their gifts. It’s all part of the magic of Christmas.

Merry Christmas!!!!

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Tired of Birth Control Options? Take Charge of your Fertility!

I have been on Birth Control Pills since I was 19 years old (7 years!!) and I have been wanting to get off of them for the last 2. I was left in constant indecision about where to turn. It wasn’t that I was unhappy with my pill, but I was freaked about the consequences! Everything I have read and researched about health has been entirely contradictory to what my chosen method was doing to my body. Once I was diagnosed with food intolerances and discovered that my birth control pills were laced with dairy- I decided that was the final straw and quit cold turkey. The plan was to use barrier methods until I made up my mind. Luckily hubby has been really supportive!

Fertility Awareness

Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler, MPH

In the midst of my anguish over what to choose- I happened to meet two people that offered an alternative! Talk about meant to be.  BOTH of them use the “Fertility Awareness Method.” Apparently FAM is 1) NOT the Rhythm Method, 2) It works, and 3) both of my friends have been using it successfully for several years. I bought the book “Taking Charge of your Fertility” by Toni Weschler instantly to get to work on some more research.

The result?? I am a completely new person! I highly recommend the book to every woman- regardless of whichever method you choose! I can’t believe how much I didn’t know about my own body! Not to mention, as I have been researching I have found that a lot of women with food intolerances are consequently on the pill- is it possible that synthetic hormones could be spurring this on? There are soooo many health risks associated with pills, patches, shots that we use simply to avoid getting pregnant! Isn’t that horrible??!! Meanwhile, woman have been going uneducated of their own bodies and don’t know that there is a more natural way to put you in control of your fertility. By tracking changes to your body such as basal body temperature, cervical fluid, and cervical position, you can be completely in charge and completely UN-pregnant (very important to me!).

Taking Charge of Your Fertility

The good news is that this method is as effective as you want it to be! It can be almost perfectly effective if you use condoms for about 8 days of the month depending on your cycle- or less days if you are thinking about starting a family.

Ok… But I have a friend who knows someone who…

Yeah there are pregnancy cases and everyone is an expert when you start talking about “natural birth control.” But really every case of an unplanned pregnancy using FAM is because of one of two reasons- 1)They get pregnant because they start using Fertility Awareness IMMEDIATELY or 2) They kind of want to get pregnant deep down (in other words- they start “risking it”).

Those are two problems that are easy to address, and if you do, you have awesome birth control for life without any horrible side-effects!!  So to address the first one is easy- if you are getting off the pill or other method of birth control, you need to use a barrier method for quite awhile since your body will be out of wack for a bit and you don’t know your body well enough yet. You can slowly wean yourself off the barrier method as you get more familier. And the second one- well you can’t really “cheat” with this method like you can with other methods. Yeah, when you are on the pill and you miss a day- you might feel ok with “risking it.” That is really not an option with this method since cheating would mean having sex exactly at the time you are most fertile without using a barrier method. That is a nice little baby recipe.

There’s an App for That
So it takes some practice to get down, and I have only just started charting myself and it has been tricky since getting off birth control pills has been a bit wild- but luckily there is an app called FemCalthat does the heavy lifting for you. It follows the strict guidelines of the book so you know exactly when you are fertile and when you are not. All you have to do is enter in the data everyday and track the changes of your body. Yay!!!

And one final note- don’t read this and then try to use Fertility Awareness- get your info from the woman who literally wrote the book about it- Toni Weschler! It is an excellent read that will give you plenty of information on how not to conceive, how to conceive, and how to know your body better.

I’ll let you know how it goes- but either way I seriously recommend the book! It will completely set you free! Talk to you soon! Good Health!

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The Caveman Diet: Have we evolved since prehistoric times?

Soupe au PistouPaleo diets have been popping up everywhere. Based on the idea that human beings could not have evolved in the 10,000 years since we were hunter-gatherers, the paleo diet (also known as the Primal or Caveman diet) advocates an eating style sans grains, dairy, and sugar. The thinking behind this diet is to eat the way humans ate before the dawn of agriculture, which advocates say was mankinds’ downturn. Crossfit gyms, athletes, and many others are finding out what this eating style can mean for their health. I believe there may be a reason for its success for some individuals, but a one-size-fits all approach might be taking it a bit too far. In my opinion, there are two flaws with the caveman diet: 1) It assumes that all human beings on earth evolved the same way, which is simply not true. And 2) Modern day hunter-gatherer societies do not eat this way. So why does the diet work?

Many claim that the Paleo diet enables a life free from inflammatory and digestive conditions as well as eliminates pain and/or more serious conditions such as cancer and heat disease. However, this may be attributed to a simple problem faced by up to 12 million Americans: Food allergies. The caveman diet eliminates two of the most common food allegens: Dairy and Gluten which could explain its success. That leaves an important question: Why do we have food allergies? Is it because we have not evolved to be able to tolerate the agricultural advancements that milking cows and milling wheat has provided to us? On the contrary, I think it is because America enabled people of every ethnicity to mingle. The famous melting-pot of America meant that people from all of the world, who were evolutionary predisposed to eat they way their ancestors had eaten for generations, were suddenly combining forces and creating a culture full of foreign foods no one  had eaten before.

Until fairly recently different cultures ate one way, passed down from ancestor to ancestor. You can bet that in 1900 you wouldn’t have caught a Spaniard eating raw fish for breakfast- yet that is what those native to Japan did daily. Different customs and rituals surrounding food were largely separate for the majority of human history. Now we live in a culture of cultures. I can eat a European breakfast of radishes with butter and a baguette for breakfast, sushi for lunch, and have a Mexican feast for dinner full of corn tortillas, peppers, and tomatoes. No wonder our health has suffered!! 90% of African and Asian people are lactose-intolerant. 70% of the population in Finland are gluten-intolerant. Introducing new foods to a belly that doesn’t know how to handle them can create a digestive system that is constantly on the defense. This could be the primary reason behind food allergies and intolerances, not to mention a host of horrible diseases.

In addition, the Tarahumara people who live in cliff dwellings in Copper Canyon Mexico are modern-day hunter-gatherers  and eat a diet of mostly vegan foods rich in corn and local spices. Not only are the Tarahumara healthy and thriving, they can run 60 miles a day without any problems! Maybe the one-diet-fits-all approach isn’t the right plan of attack.

Food intolerance is hereditary, which makes sense considering that you are of the same genetic makeup as your parents who evolved to be able to digest the foods common to their ancestral heritage. Knowing your genetic background could mean major differences in your health. The book “The Jungle Effect” while not specific to food allergies, gives insight to eating like your ancestors for better overall health. My heritage is mostly Northern European so I’ve been working to get more fish into my diet as well as other traditional delicacies (which explains why I can’t tolerate dairy, gluten, and eggs!). After three years of a lot of pain and suffering, I finally found answers by doing an ELISA blood panel (more info here: www.ibstreatmentcenter.com). The blood panel can give you insight into which foods your body is rebelling against. Abstaining from those foods can bring you a whole new world of health! (It has for me!).

I don’t follow the Paleo diet, but I do abstain from eating gluten, eggs, and dairy after I received my panel results which is pretty similar. Find out what works for you, not whatever diet trend is the new thing. My motto for health remains the same: Lots of plants and water, a sprinkle of sunshine, and avoidance of your allergies!!

Talk to you soon! Good Health!!

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One Person’s Poison

I hit a wall. But that is what lead me here, to a place where I finally have answers that will hopefully shed light on problems I’ve seen faced by sooooo many people! And there ARE answers! People with IBS, Crohn’s, Celiac, or the perpetually undiagnosed CAN find out what is ailing them and make positive changes with their life! All it takes is a little bit of info and some positive life changes!

I have struggled with digestive issues on and off for the past couple of years. When “on”, I could easily slide myself into a stress funk (which makes it even worse)! I would think, I have appendicitis! A tumor! Something had to be seriously wrong judging by the intense stomach pain I felt. Only cuddling up in bed could provide me any relief. Over time I have researched and researched and researched to try to get to the bottom of what is causing my pain. After a three year struggle to get to the bottom of it, I finally found good news. In other words, we aren’t all doomed.

What the Experts Say (and can we believe them??)

After dealing with bouts of colon pain I decided I wanted to get to the bottom of it and try to rid it once and for all. I started with a few doc visits. After a lot of money and time, here’s what they had to tell me: Doctor number 1 tested me for Celiac (negative) and said I might be lactose or gluten intolerant. Doctor number 2 laughed it off as IBS (no cure, you’ll have it till you are 50-sorry!). I went to an Ayurveda Practitioner who chalked it up to stress as well as diet factors such as not enough fiber, and too much cheese and bread (common in the west). Lastly, I saw a Clairvoyant who told me that she could see that I was holding long-term trauma in my stomach. Alrighty, soooo stress, food intolerances, diet, and a doomed future…. I’m going to need more information.

Thus began my research online. On the web, there are thousands of conflicting sites that all claim to know how to solve digestive ailments. Google IBS and you will find advocates who say a Paleo diet is the true solution, or that the Mediterranean Diet is the cure. Some say low-fat, some say high-fiber; some say good fats, high-omega 3′s, low-carb or no carb. There are “experts” who say avoid fried foods, sugar, wheat, milk, and pretty much every other food under the sun. Exercise, take supplements, probiotics, enzymes, laxatives! Drink raw milk, no milk, no dairy. No gluten or no grains period! What advice are we supposed to follow? It seems that these “experts” aren’t any more knowledgeable than the general public! If we are to follow all of the advice that’s out there we would be on a water and vegetable only diet and a heavy load of supplements that will contradict each other! (Trust me, that is not the answer).

The Good News

After 3 years of complete agony, and the millionth google search about what my symptoms could possibly mean, I stumbled upon an excellent article in Natural Health Magazine. The article talks about food sensitivities, and although I have tried to eliminate items from my diet before without success, it gave an excellent piece of advice: get tested. After the author tested his mother for food sensitivities and discovered she reacted strongly to egg, removing that element from her diet gave her a whole new life.

I started looking up different means of testing, when I found a true gem. The IBS Treatment Center in Seattle. I read every testimonial on the site and found a ton of people EXACTLY like me, with the same symptoms, the same “life threatening” feeling that I was constantly feeling!!!! Empowered, I scheduled an appointment with Dr. Wangen and flew up to Seattle to see him. After a blood and stool/DNA test, I received my results this week. Like many before me I found some answers! Food intolerances.

I cannot even describe to you the relief! Gluten, Dairy, & Eggs (“The Big Three” as they are called) are my culprit. I eat all three of these things daily! Two days ago I revamped my kitchen, planned menus and am on my way to a new life! A life where I will be able to run, do yoga, go for hikes! I can’t wait to see the results from my new diet and hope to be pain-free in no time! I will let you know my results as I hit the 1 and 2 month marks. (about how long it takes for your digestion system to repair itself after the poison’s are removed). There will be some recovery ahead, but at least there are finally answers! I hope that my answers can be of some help to others going through the pain of discovering what ails them. It is a hard process, but there ARE ANSWERS! I promise!

I would be happy to talk with anyone that finds themselves in the same scenario! Email me at elle@happyyogis.net

Good Luck! and Good Health!

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Seeing the Divine in Life

Recently I have found myself on a “Christian Warpath” researching and reading tons of sources looking for proof of God and Jesus. In all of the things written about God, there had to be something. This weekend- I found my proof. It came in the form of my wonderful husband. We took a trip up to Mendocino this weekend. One morning, we woke up and walked out on the trails of Fort Bragg and found ourselves on a beautiful secluded beach where we sat on a log to enjoy the peaceful view. I told Garret that I was worried, what is there isn’t a God? I told him about my frustrations- My annoyance at this Paul guy- who for some reason wrote a bunch of books in the new testament even though he never met Jesus. What a gyp! I told him that thanks to the early church, HUNDREDS of sources about Jesus were destroyed! What gives! How are we supposed to know what was being said about Jesus during the time he was alive, if all that is written about him came after he died, and from people who didn’t know him?

After my rant was over, Garret looked at me and said, “How can you not believe there is a God? How else would I have found you?” Suddenly I was crying and Garret was telling me that there is no doubt in his mind there is a God, because of how we found each other, how we wound up in California, how we got our jobs, found our house, and got married. He was completely right, in looking for proof, I forgot to remember all of the things God has done for me that simply could not have been random occurrences in my life. Someone has been taking care of me. Someone has led me and been there for me.

I was reminded of when I was ten years old, crying my eyes out at the kitchen table. I don’t remember the cause of my anguish, but as my tears stained the table, a huge gust of wind blew through my sliding glass door flipping open the pages of a calendar my mom had received in the mail and hung on the wall. As the pages flew open, the month of October stuck, landing on a page that simply said, “In difficult times turn to the Lord.” I stopped crying, knowing for certain that God was with me. As I think about this moment now, I marvel at the fact that I had immediately believed that God was there. Yet recently, my mind has been riddled with doubt. How could I believe so fully as a child, even having never gone to church or been taught about God? The answer is because I saw God there, in that moment.

Now I am realizing how much proof there is of God all around me! On Monday when I returned from our trip, I searched Barnes and Noble for a new read for my nook. I settled on a book called, “Travelling with Pomegranates” because I thought the cover was beautiful. The synopsis described a tale of a mother and daughter who travel to Greece together. That should suit my travel bug!  A couple of chapters in, I discover the mother finding God in a bee that sits on her shoulder. To her, this is so clearly God, telling her he is with her. To me, this is God telling me that he is with me. How did I choose to read this book, unknowing that it is about exactly what is going on inside me? Because God wanted me to read it.

It’s so simple now when I look at my life, to believe that God is all around me. As far back as mankind goes, people have been believing in the divine. They see it in their families, in the decisions they have made in the beautiful miracles that happen in their daily lives. You can’t just read the bible and find what you are looking for, you have to look at yourself, at your life. Garret believes without question, because there are miracles all around him. I am so thankful that I have my husband, my walking miracle,  and my personal proof of God everyday.

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